1. Trust is key. Do not overreact and jump to conclusions, nor assume anything because most likely you are wrong. With no trust, the relationship lacks one of the fundamental components that lead to a successful bond.
2. Make sure to communicate. You cannot expect her to read your mind. You must be fully capable of articulating your needs.
3. Spend the right amount of time with her. It is okay to spend time with friends and family; however, always make the effort to make time for her. By doing this, you are showing your appreciation for the relationship you have.
4. Treat her like the queen she is. Whether it is through speech, gifts, hugs, or something as simple as the way you hold her hand.
5. Compromise. Relationships are supposed to be give and take. If only one person is compromising in a relationship, it’s not a relationship.
6. Make an attempt to get along with her friends and family. The people she is closest with usually have a huge influence in her life and could be deciding on the future of the relationship.
7. Values. The two of you should have shared/set values. It makes the time that you share easier, because you both have the same values.
8. Prayer. As Tyler Perry says, “A couple that prays together stays together!”
9. Don’t take things too seriously. Try to make the relationship as fun as possible, but also knowing when to stop.
10. Cherish her for who she is and who she’s not. From her beauty, her intelligence, her hopes, her dreams, to her flaws, her corny jokes, her bad hair days, and everything in between.
Monday, October 12, 2009
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